Day 10 – His Attitude 

“Attitude is everything” is a phrase that a lot of us have heard and even used at some point or the other. Attitude has different meaning based on how it’s been used either as a noun, a verb or an adjective. But it all bores down to same thing. Now we can only say it’s either a good or bad one, wrong or right one. It is a settled way of thinking or feeling about someone or something, typically one that is reflected in a person’s behavior. How difficult and uncomfortable it is to live with a man that has an attitude.

There is this colleague of my husband who was just so angry at me. When I greet him, he wouldn’t respond. When my husband and I are in a place and he comes around to talk to my husband, he would treat me as though I ain’t there. It happened every time. My husband said I should always ensure I greet him whether he answers or not. We were just surprised at such an attitude. But then we could only pray for his wife.

You are happily coming home to share a great news and the persons who opens the door for you is so hard faced. You tell him anyway and he is not one bit excited for you. The list go on. Today we will be praying for God to give our husbands peace and calm. Don’t say your husband isn’t that way so the prayer isn’t for you. I’ll admonish you to pray for someone else in that case. Remember you cannot change a man you didn’t create. Only his maker can. Your prayer can influence him and make him ready for change.

Prayer Points:

  • Father I thank you for all the prayers I have made in these past days. I thank you for this great opportunity to pray for (husband’s name). You are his maker and I believe every thing that needs to be changed is possible with you in Jesus name.
  • Father today I ask for your peace and calmness to flow within and all over him today and always.
  • Let the aliveness that the love of God brings come into him and take away every deadness that despair and anger and resentment brings in Jesus name.
  • Whatever it is that has happened in the past that keeps reminding him causing him to doubt his decisions as regards me. I ask that your love through my love teaches him to trust and love in return. I pray oh Lord that you calm him within and give him the assurance through my love that all is well and will be well in Jesus name.
  • Help me Lord to understand and not get frustrated and act up. Help me to pray more than how much I think or talk about it in Jesus name.
  • As (husband’s name) moves around the house, he will be happy and joyful. Let me be a daily reminder of your love and goodness to him in Jesus name.
  • Father today I receive understanding for (husband’s name) because my actions will no longer be misunderstood. I receive calmness for you because there will be no more unnecessary outburst over little things I innocently do.
  • There are so many things about a man’s past that somehow begins to affect him in the present, when you act coincidentally with an action that occurred in the past it tends to send wrong signals. If he has told you about them, I need you to tell God about them and ask him to guide you aright.
  • If he hasn’t told you, ask the Lord to reveal it to you or cause your husband to tell you.
  • Now go ahead and mention those areas where you see that your husband needs to change. Tell God exactly as it is. You know where the shoe pinches you, so cry out your discomfort to God.

Bible Verses: Numbers 6:24-26 “‘May the Lord bless you and keep you. May the Lord smile down on you and show you his kindness. May the Lord answer your prayers and give you peace.’”

Confession: I will have peace because you will have peace and calmness. I will enjoy my marriage because we will be open to share our frustrations and pray about them. 

Thank God so far for bringing us to day 10. We have 2 more days.

God bless you.

©BLArticles2016

Day 9 – His Relationship and his home

This particular topic is tricky and I beg you to pray because when battles rage in a relationship or at home. The Lord’s intervention is the best solution. 

The Bible said a man should leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife. You see, marriage was not designed for  the wife to be competing for the attention or love of her husband. The man must understand that the moment he became one with his wife, every other person became extended. The man becomes the head of the woman and not the parents or friends become the head of the woman.

At creation, he made them one man, one woman. Not one man two women or one man, two women and one sister and one brother and one friend. The husband needs to know that now his primary attention goes to his wife. She becomes his priority. Off course God is above all. Not forgetting the female colleague at work who smiles to him everyday to get his attention.

While we talk about our husband, let’s bring it home to us. Some of us as wives, how have been our relationship with others? Do you come home talking about a man in a way you cannot speak of your husband? Or you still have a best friend and he is a man and your husband knows it? This little things as it may seem can go on to hurt a marriage.

Marriage is not just for procreation and sex. It’s for fellowship, companionship, friendship and all the beautiful things. Your husband should be your priority. Don’t put him in a position where he competes for your attention. The prayer points here would be few as you will pray for yourself and your husband telling God exactly how you want your home and your relationship with your husband to be.

Prayer Points:

  • Father I bless you for the perfect gift of a husband that you have given to me. I bless you because when you created (husband’s name), you were thinking of me. Thank you for bringing us together as husband and wife. Thank you for our home. Thank you for your goodness to us over the years (older wives). Thank you for your goodness that will see us through the years to come (new wives).
  • Heavenly Father, where it is that I have been tearing down my own home due to my relationships with others which puts my husband in a competitive position, I ask your mercy today. Forgive me and guide me to make things right from today in Jesus name.
  • I pray for myself today that you give me insight into areas where I have taken on relationships I shouldn’t have and give me the wisdom to draw the line with others especially men who I have become so close to and are posing a danger to my marriage in Jesus name.
  • I pray for (husband’s name) that you will help him to truly leave and cleave to me his wife in Jesus name.
  • Give him wisdom to draw the line of every relationship. I will not become a spare part that he remembers when there is a need for change. He will see me as you have positioned me to be his wife, his friend, his confidant, his prayer partner, etc in Jesus name.
  • He will not put me in a position where I compete for his love, his attention, his care, his assistance etc in Jesus name.
  • Lord, your word says “what God has joined together, let no man put asunder.” Father I will not put my marriage asunder, (husband’s name) will not put our marriage asunder.
  • Today I receive grace and boldness from the throne of Grace for (husband’s name) that will help him see me as the woman he chose over others to be wife. Let the love that brought about that decision (mention number) years ago be reignited in him in Jesus name.
  • As he relates with other women, I pray against the spirit of lust that moves around. It will not have a hold on him but Lord you will give him self control in Jesus name.
  • Now talk to God about how your marriage is and where you want it to be. Talk to him about extended families and friends. Pray from the heart but remember a prayer with anger and hatred will not be answered by God. Pray from a place of love.

Bible verse: Genesis 2:24 (CEB) “This is the reason that a man leaves his father and mother and embraces his wife, and they become one flesh.”

‭‭Confession: (husband’s name) and I will not put asunder our marriage by bringing in third parties. (husband’s name) and I will not tear down our home by leaving external relationships undefined. (husband’s name) and I will respect each other and not put the other in a competitive place. This is my confession which I make before the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.

God bless you.

©BLArticles2016

Day 8 – His Spirituality

This part is as clear as it reads. My dad said and i quote, “Every family unit is a little church of it’s own in which the father is the pastor. Therefore, every Father of a home must know that it is his responsibility to lead his family to Christ and daily remind them of their position in Christ ensuring that he prepares them for heaven as well.”

When I got married, God opened my eyes to see that Every Married Man is a Gatekeeper. Who and what he allows into his house is in his power. Every family is not just a physical unit comprising of Father, Mother and Children. It is also a spiritual unit – A CHURCH. Just think of a rich man who has a lot to protect and preserve, does he allow anyone to come in or anything? Off course not. Instead he builds up his securities. So why will our husbands not take their place and guard our family against those visitors who do not knock but look for any open gate and go in.

Today we will be ensuring that our husbands take their position and this we will do by praying.

Prayer Points:

  • Heavenly father, I bless you for the opportunity to come to pray for (husband’s name) in this area. I bless you because you always always hear me and today is not an exception.
  • Oh Lord, wherever (husband’s name) has missed it and slipped, I obtain mercy on his behalf. Let your mercy speak and cause us not to be overcome by the consequences of his negligence in Jesus Name.
  • Father, (husband’s name) will not leave his position to another. I ask for your strength to be made available to him on a daily basis as he guards our home in prayer from all unwanted visitors in the name of Jesus
  • Dear Lord, for times when there will be knocks on the gate, I receive for him a discerning spirit to be able to differentiate the visitors that are welcome and those who aren’t in Jesus name.
  • The Bible makes us to understand that the devil goes around as a roaring Lion looking for whom to devour. Today Lord i pray that (husband’s name) will not be too tired to guard and end up a prey to the Lion. I receive boldness for him to face the Lion who comes wanting to devour him and gain access to us in Jesus name.
  • Father today I position myself as his assistant and i pray that when he needs to be assisted, i would not be missing in Jesus name. Cause me to always be on my guard to wake him up when it looks like he is getting tired in Jesus name.
  • (husband’s name), you will hear instructions of the Lord and lead us in the part of righteousness. You will be a blessing to us, a pastor to me and our children and an intercessor for us all in Jesus name.
  • When temptations come to shake you up, the strength Jesus had to overcome the devil even after a period of fasting, I decree that it made available to you today and always. You will not be swept off your feet unawares. The Lord will put the right answer in your mouth to give to your tempters and victory will be yours in Jesus name.
  • Sometimes the body can be tired and there can be a struggle to either pray or sleep. I pray for you today that at the time set for you to pray, every trace of sleep clears off your eyes and you will receive strength to rise and pray in Jesus name.
  • You will walk hand in hand with God and He will teach you all that you need to teach us in Jesus name. You will grow in the grace of God. You will always run to God when you need help. You will realize that your strength is not suffiecient on its own. The tap of God’s strength will not stop flowing to you in Jesus name.
  • For everytime, you run to Calvary to obtain Grace, Grace will be there waiting for you in Jesus name. The Lord will not turn his face from you but He with arms wide open will look on you and help you where i fall short in Jesus name.
  •  (Husband’s name), by virtue of you being husband and dad, God has made you the leader of this home, i receive for you today wisdom to lead me and our children in the way of the Lord, you will have a positive influence over us because you will live and act and do what Jesus will do in Jesus name.
  • By looking at your life, hearing your words, our children will desire to know the Lord. The truth and ways of the Lord you will teach to our children and they will obey and live in it in Jesus name.
  • Pray as led.

Bible Verse: Deuteronomy 6:6-9 (ERV) “Always remember these commands that I give you today. Be sure to teach them to your children. Talk about these commands when you sit in your house and when you walk on the road. Talk about them when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them on your hands and wear them on your foreheads to help you remember my teachings. Write them on the doorposts of your houses and on your gates.”

‭‭‭‭Confession: As for me and my house, we will know the Lord, grow in his grace and serve him with our lives. The wicked one will not find an entrance into our camp because our gates and borders are secured.

God bless you all. 

©BLArticles2016

Day 7: His Communication and Temper

All around us we can see the high increase in domestic violence that is quietly ravaging homes.  Today I was going to talk on a different topic so we pray but this is what the Lord desire that we come to him about. So please pray in whatever language you desire. Pray as led a lot. If you are hurt by your husband at this time, let me encourage your heart that it’s okay to be angry when hurt but it’s not okay to be angry and pray because when you do so in the wrong way, God will not answer. I am not saying, you shouldn’t feel hurt, I am saying let it push you to give the devil a knock on his head and keep him running. Everyone please pray as well. There is a saying that if it’s only when you are in trouble you pray, then you are truly in trouble.

Earlier in marriage, because of our differences, there was a lot of misunderstanding but God helped me in the sense that I had to draw from the experiences life had taught me on how to respond to situations of conflict. In marriage, it was a little harder because the person I love is involved so it was very painful. My secret had and has always been to pray and wait for the right time to confront the matter but one thing remains, we do not go to bed with an unsettled matter. Even when the other wouldn’t bulge, the other has to humble his/herself to come to a compromise. This is communication related.

Some of us women know how to talk and flog an issue from here to there and back that it aggravates most spouses and it brings out the worst in them. So its both ways here we would be praying. When the Lord gave woman to man, she was given for companionship and not for a punching bag. Despite Eve caused Adam the garden of Eden, there is no where it was recorded that he beat her up. So see, you are not designed to be one.

Its heartbreaking to hear such happening in Christian homes. So let us pray and leave too much talking alone.

Prayer Points:

  • Father I thank you for this beautiful opportunity to come to talk to you about (husband’s name). I want the best for him and of him and I know you gave me to him for a purpose. Lord if praying for him is all I can do for him to be the best, Lord give me the strength to do so even when i am hurt in Jesus name.
  • Lord I bring myself before you, I ask that when I am hurt, give me the grace to hold my tongue when it feels like going on and on and on. Help me to be calm and quiet and when the time for me to talk presents itself, help me to express myself with words that are seasoned with salt so that Lord they bring about a brokenness and conviction and not judgement and condemnation.
  • I pray for you (husband’s name) that you will be patient with me and always communicate your dislikes to me. Help me Lord to be patient and communicate where it is that I am not comfortable in Jesus name.
  • Lord when I need clarification on a matter handled by my husband. I pray that you give me wisdom to act right, relying on the help of the Holy Spirit to guide me into all truth.
  • Father with anger, we cannot live the way you want us to so I pray for (husband’s name) that he will be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to get angry in Jesus name. (James 1:19-20)
  • Father your word says anger rest in the bosom of fools. Lord (husband’s name) will not look like, live or grow into a fool. Teach him when to be calm and overlook wrong doings and when to hold back and be wise in Jesus name. (Ecclesiastes 7:9, Proverbs 29:11)
  • Father every harsh words that causes anger which go on to cause strife take away from (husband’s name). I pray today that his words be gentle, let them calm every arguments that will arise between us in Jesus name. (Proverbs 15:1,18)
  • Some husbands has grown up in a family where all they knew was an angry father. Unconsciously, they pick up traits of this and come into their home and begin to manifest. Every spirit of harsh words and anger that accompanied my husband into our new home Father I dissociate him from such. Lord I destroy its hold over (husband’s name). You have troubled him too long and have troubled my marriage too long. From today I break your hold. The blood of Jesus flush you out and make it uncomfortable for you to dwell in the name of Jesus. (Proverbs 22:24)
  • Most men who are violent must have manifested one way or the other but some of us were so blinded by love that we didn’t see it. Today you say Lord Jesus, I have become one with (husband’s name) and so Lord I pray that every violent spirit that pushes my husband to violate me domestically will be arrested by the power of the Almighty God. Father whatever it is that triggers this anger in my husband, open my eyes to see so that I will be careful in Jesus name. Where it has been me or our selfish desires. Have mercy and build our love for one another afresh in our hearts in Jesus name. (James 4:1-2)
  • Father help us to watch our thoughts so we don’t come up with unnecessary foolish and ignorant speculations that will cause strife in Jesus name. (2 Timothy 2:23-24)
  • Pray as led and thank the Lord for answered prayers.

God will give us peace in our homes and every house on fire the Spirit of the Lord will go ahead and quench in Jesus name. You will not lose your home to the lies of the devil that brings about anger in Jesus name.

Bible Verses: Proverbs 16:32 (AMP) “He who is slow to anger is better and more honorable than the mighty [soldier], And he who rules and controls his own spirit, than he who captures a city.”

‭‭Confession: Today I decree that my words and that of my husband are gentle. Our words will bring about calmness and healing. We do not give room for the devil to sow the seed of anger in us. Our home will experience the peace that the Prince of Peace gives. I will not abuse my husband. He will not abuse me. The life and nature of Christ lives in us and we will be Christ like and enjoy the beautiful joys of our marriage in Jesus name. Amen.

God bless you and invite as many to join in and we gradually come to a close of this program.

©BLArticles2016

Day 6 – His spending 

Yesterday God led us to pray for our husband’s work. Today we will be praying for his spending.

It can be so frustrating if you have a husband that is a wasteful spender. This man will buy on impulse, buy something that will not add value to him, borrow and buy things and then the whole family begin to suffer because there is a lot of debt to pay. The hurtful case is when you both operate one purse.

What we will be praying about today has destroyed homes by building distrust between the couple and some has led to broken homes in the end. Just like decision making, spending wrongly has great consequences spiritually and physically.

Lack of contentment can be a reason, competition, and pride. And these right here has landed many homes in the trash bags of life. Another reason is a quest to get more, some end up joining organizations where they ask them to bring what have to get more.

Prayer Points:

  • Father I thank you because you are (husband’s name) maker and you alone can change him. I bless you because as I call unto you in this area of his life, you will hear me and answer in Jesus name.
  • List all the areas in which your husband has spent carelessly and tell the Lord how you feel.
  • Tell the Lord exactly how much comes in (if you know it) and for those who don’t, ask that the Lord touch the heart of your husband to tell you how much he earns. If you haven’t told him yours, take that step of doing so. Then tell the Lord how it should be spent and how it is currently spent.
  • If your husband is the one that gives to everyone especially extended family and friends and neglect you and his nuclear family, pray from your heart about this.
  • If your husband is so stingy that it’s affecting you and the family. Mention this to the Lord from a place of great concern and Love.
  • Father whatever spirit that goes around causing Men to abandon their families and spend on outsiders, I decree in the name of Jesus that such spirit will not find you (husband’s name).
  • I decree today that the accountable God of heaven will cause you (husband’s name) to be accountable to him and to me and our family in Jesus name.
  • It’s so bad when our husbands spends and forget to do the spending that saves – paying tithe. Today Lord where it is in time past that due to our careless spending, we have not given to you and allowed devourers into our camp, we ask for you mercy that you forgive us and deliver us from their hold in Jesus name.
  • Father your word says, it’s whatever we sow, we reap. Father as (husband’s name) sow towards kingdom purposes, making future investment, let there be a divine reaping in the name of Jesus.
  • By virtue of my husband sowing, our future is secured because we shall lack no good thing in Jesus name.
  • Giving to man can be good and can be bad as well. Giving aright, as led, as inspired has great benefits. People has misconstrued the Bible verse of Luke 6:38. Preceding that verse Jesus spoke about not judging people and forgiving people then he said give. Sometimes you give and are angry about it. You will be giving amiss this way. Father where it is we have given wrongfully, we ask for mercy. Today I pray for (husband’s name) that he will give aright when the opportunity arises. He won’t give and judge, he won’t give and condemn, he won’t give and be angry but every giving will be done out of Love and you who sees in secret will reward openly in Jesus name.
  • Father (husband’s name) will be wise in spending. When he is about to make a mistake, by reason of this prayer I am making today, the spirit of God will guide him and deliver him in Jesus name.
  • Father, any property or business deal that will put us in a place of poverty, let them not know my husband’s name in the name of Jesus.
  • Every wasteful friend that will come to him to influence him, I dissociate him from such in Jesus name.
  • Every evil hand that will want to receive from us I ask that they do not find their way to my husband and if they do, when they stretch forth their hands to receive they use that which they have received for good against their will and intention in Jesus name.
  • You provided the work for (husband’s name), you will teach him how to spend. For the fact that He is working at that place (mention his workplace), they will not run out of business but grow and grow and (husband’s name) will increase and increase on every side in Jesus name.
  • Father when we spend to buy food and all basic home care needs, we will buy from the right people in the name of Jesus. 
  • Lord teach my husband to save.
  • Lord teach my husband to invest.
  • Lord teach my husband to trust your guidance in this regard in Jesus name.
  • Pray as led.

Bible verse: Matthew 7:6 (ERV) ““Don’t give something that is holy to dogs. They will only turn and hurt you. And don’t throw your pearls to pigs. They will only step on them.”

Confession: All that the Lord has given to us will be used to his glory. We will give and invest as guided by the Holy Spirit without reservation. We will increase and know no lack because we trust the Lord. Amen.

God bless you and see you tomorrow.

©BLArticles2016

Anniversary Giveaway

With all thanks to God, in some days to come, my awesome boyfriend and I will be beginning another year in this journey called Marriage.

We happened to have this books few months in marriage and it has helped us grow. God has used it to guide us aright being outright novices. No amount of people’s experience or observation or reading you do can equate to realtime experience. One thing I can promise you is if you hold on to the hands of God, even when the storms come raging, He will stand by you. So to potential winners, please let God use the book to guide you. Search scriptures along side.

This is the very first here on BLArticles. We pray the Lord help us as we intend to make it an annual thing. It’s to encourage young Christian Marriages all over the world. If you are inspired to help young marriages thrive, grow and blossom through giveaways, you can contact me.

Okay to qualify to win, there are some rules.

Eligibility:

  • Married this year (January to December)
  • Clocked one year in marriage this year.
  • Will truly read the books.

How to:

  • Like our Facebook Page
  • Follow our blog
  • Participate in the 12 days prayer.
  • Write an inspiring poem on marriage on the page as a comment under this post.
  • The two comments with the highest likes wins. (A bride married last year and another married this year)

What to Win:

  1. 1 Power of a Praying Wife
  2. 1 Power of a Praying Wife Devotional
  3. 1 Power of a Praying Husband 

My sincere prayer is that you do not just add this to your collection of books but that it stirs up the need to always pray about everything.

I pray God gives you a testimony in Jesus name. Amen.

Winners will be announced on 14th December 2016.

God bless you all.

©BLArticles2016

Day 5 – His Work

For every husband represented here who is working, I bless God on your behalf. For every husband represented here looking up to the Lord for a job, I trust the Lord to come through for you in a big way without notice.

You know sometimes I look at scriptures and I am excited and other times, I am terrified. This verse tells of His unconditional love, the other of His fierceness and judgement and then I wonder. But in the end, he is the two edged sword, one trims to bring out the best, the other cuts in judgment.

Any man who cannot provide for his home has been described in scripture as worse than an infidel (unbeliever). In the beginning, God gave a working Adam, Eve. So our husbands are meant to be working.

Prayer Points:

  • Father I thank you for (husband’s name) job. I bless you for providing a place where he is paid enough to provide for me and the family. I bless you for the promotions he has received and those he is yet to receive.
  • Lord I receive divine protection over  (husband’s name) life and over his job. I pray that the enemy will not find any means to oppress him in Jesus name.
  • As (husband’s name) goes to work everyday, the wisdom he needs to carry out each day’s activities to the best achievable level, you give unto him in Jesus name.
  • I decree the hand of the Lord rest over you (husband’s name). I send the blood of Jesus ahead of you to anoint your work station before you. For everytime you get to work and do not remember to pray over your space, by reason of my prayer today, you are safe and sheltered in the shadow of the Almighty in Jesus name. (Psalm 91:1)
  • Your going out and coming in is blessed. As you go to work everyday, you will return to us in peace and plenty to the glory of the Lord in Jesus name. (Psalm 121:8, Deuteronomy 28:6)
  • I cover your identity with the blood of Jesus, when they are relieving people of their jobs, you will be promoted because you are a child of the Lord and because I have prayed for you today in Jesus name. (Psalm 75:6)
  • I decree that corrupt and dishonest colleagues will not influence you.   You will not join others in reaping where you have not sown. Today I prayerfully position you in a place where you stand for the truth and defend it in Jesus name. You will be trusted because others will see Jesus in you.
  • Today Lord, I receive a job for my husband, double for the wasted years. I see his desire to work and I ask that you connect us to that helper you have planted for us in this phase of life in Jesus name.
  • I receive favors from the north, south, west and east for you (husband’s name). Before you call, men will come to his aid in Jesus name.
  • Finally, lord for the reason that (husband’s name) is in that place of work, I decree that they remain relevant to their clients in Jesus name.

Bible verse: I Timothy 5:8 (ERV) “Everyone should take care of all their own people. Most important, they should take care of their own family. If they do not do that, then they do not accept what we believe. They are worse than someone who does not even believe in God.”

Confession: As you give of your best to your work. Your efforts are crowned with success and your success with benefits.

God bless you

©BLArticles2016

Day 4: His Decisions 

Looking at the story of Naomi, her husband made a decision that cost her everything. She lost everything. Wrong decisions made by our husbands can cost us in ways we can’t imagine. The funny part is that sometimes you may have a decision but may not be able to share with hubby because he would not respect it. Other cases, some can’t even dare air their opinions.

Let me share a quick story with you. While I was preparing to begin the journey of marriage, my dad gave me a very special gift which were lessons and clear scriptural advices for a Christian wife. A paragraph concerned on this particular topic. It reads: “Even when the wife’s opinion is better when taking a decision, there must be wisdom and humility to pass that across to the husband for collective agreement and generally no husband will ever appreciate a situation where the wife’s opinion ALWAYS overrules in any decision making and God who makes the husband the head of the home always in a true Christian will help him to still guide in many critical issues and the wife must be ready to LEARN in  most situations.” ~ S.A. Reju

So today we will be raising this area of our husband’s life to God. For those of us who our opinions matter a lot in the decision makings in our homes, don’t relax. Pray too because there are time when hubby has to make an “on-the-spot” kind of decision. Your opinion then won’t count. So you see the need to pray?

Prayer points:

  • Father, I bless you for your mercy that has caused us not to be consumed by the consequences of our decisions. Thank you for being God and for proving that over and over again.
  • Father I bring (husband’s name) before you today. I receive for him grace to ask your help in making decisions regarding our family in Jesus name.
  • (Husband’s name), you will not put me in a place of loss as a result of your decision but we will both work into a place of life in Jesus name.
  • For times when you have to make decisions on the spot as regards yourself or even our family, I send the spirit of God ahead of you to guide you aright in Jesus name.
  • Your decisions will not put us in a position where we forget God or doubt his ability to come through for us in Jesus name.
  • Father whatever decisions has been taken in the past by my husband alone or with me that has caused us to sorrow, Oh Lord have mercy and forgive him/us in Jesus name.
  • Father, cause my husband to trust in you with all of his heart and not lean on his own understanding. Let him acknowledge that you know better than him and hence make a decision guided by you in Jesus name. (Proverbs 3:5-6)
  • Oh Lord, let (husband’s name) decision be in line with the good plans you have for us to give us an expected end in Jesus name. (Jeremiah 29:11)
  • Father you said we should ask for wisdom. Today I receive for (husband’s name) an asking spirit in Jesus name. Let him always make decisions drawn from the well of your wisdom and when I air my opinion and it is the right one, deliver my husband from selfish pride of superiority and cause him to agree with me on it in Jesus name. (James 1:5, Proverbs 11:14)
  • You oh Lord are the only wise God. I decree that (husband’s name) will decide wisely as he walks with you in Jesus name. (Proverbs 14:20)
  • When major decisions that involves our family are to be taken, oh Lord give my husband the grace to be patient and think it through prayerfully in Jesus name.
  • Father I thank you because my husband will receive your touch in this area by virtue of my prayer this day in Jesus name.
  • Pray as led 

Bible Verse: Proverbs 3:5-6 (ERV) “Trust the Lord completely, and don’t depend on your own knowledge. With every step you take, think about what he wants, and he will help you go the right way.”

Confession: (Husband’s name), your decisions will be in line with God’s great plan to give us a hope and future.

‭‭God bless you all.

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