Day 2 – Connected to God, Controlled by Love.

We thank God for the opportunity to come before him for our husbands. Do you know that your prayers to God for your husband is very important? Everyone may pray for him; but the moment he becomes joined to you, your prayers becomes of utmost importance in his life. We as beautiful wives wouldn’t take this privilege for granted.

Scriptural Thoughts: Ephesians 5:1-33

Prayer Points

  • Father I thank you for you always hear me. My dear husband, on this day I connect you to God and I release upon you love for God. I decree that your life is controlled by the Love of God and all you do and will do will be as a sweet smelling sacrifice to the Lord.
  • I disconnect you from every matter that is in one way or another immoral, indecent and termed greedy. I fill your mouth with thanks and pleasing words which uplifts, encourages and beautifies. I remove you from companies of those who would influence you negatively and make you loose your share in the Kingdom of God.
  • My dear husband, I dissociate you from disobedient people. I decree that as you have come in contact with God and now live in the light, you will continually remain in the light. I associate you will people who are in the light. When you find yourself in the dark situation of this world, I pray for you that your light will not go dim but shine brighter and dispel every darkness.
  • I pray for you my dear husband that, that which you would be ashamed of if it should become public, you will not be involved in. When you are alone by yourself or with friends, I sync your heart to the Holy Spirit.
  • I submit myself to you as my authority under the authority of Christ and I pray that you will not take advantage of God’s command to submit to enslave me but you will love me in all areas. Your actions will not be in conflict with your words because I am releasing upon you the nature of Christ and I pray that you are controlled by Love.
  • As we became one under God, leaving father and mother, I connect you my head to our source – God and I decree that I will be overwhelmed with your love and I will respect you always.

All of these I have prayed and decreed in Jesus Name. Amen.

God bless you.

Day 1 – Favour without Boundaries.

Welcome to Day 1 of the Beautiful Wife Prayer challenge. How sweet and beautiful when wives gather to pray for their husbands. We will remain a model to the world that godly marriages exist and work.

Prayer Points

  • Father I thank you for the opportunity to pray for my husband. I thank you for putting me in a position to pray for my husband. I thank you because every of my prayer will be answered in Jesus Name.
  • Lord, I am a good thing and my presence in the life of my husband shows you are happy with him. Therefore Lord all the good that is attached to me by virtue of my position as wife, I decree that heaven release them upon my husband.
  • I release an outpouring of fruitfulness and Favour upon you my husband. Fruitfulness of your body, fruitfulness of your business, fruitfulness of your service. Your name becomes Mr. Favour because everywhere you go and everyone that come in contact with you will have no choice but to Favour you.
  • By virtue of my position as your beautiful wife, I give the Lord express permission to open every closed doors and close every door that shouldn’t be open and is. You will not miss your way but your every steps will be ordered to favour in Jesus Name.
  • You will be overwhelmed with open doors and favor on every side that those who once said no, will begin to say YES because I have made a covenant with heaven today to bless you with all the blessings of Heaven.

All these I have prayed in Jesus Name. Amen.

God bless you.

THE EMPLOYEE: A Christian’s point of view

As Sisi (not real name) prepared for her trip, getting documents she would be needing for the meeting with the clients and other professionals ready, one of the admin staff called out to her saying, ” I was instructed to give you these for your expenses since you might be taking care of your self over there.” She was handed $300 and off she left to prepare for her trip.

Upon her return, Sisi came to the office and being a Christian, alongside giving feedback from the meeting, she held unto $200 to return back as she only spent $100. After discussing with her boss, she handed him over the remaining of the money that was given to her. Her boss looking surprised and happy at the same time told her that she should keep it. Thanking him, she left for her desk.

Shortly before she went to her boss, she was asked by colleagues how her trip went and if she had any funds remaining of what was given to her. She said yes and upon mentioning that she would be returning it, she was advised to keep it and was even laughed at and called a “mumu” (someone that is not smart).

Sharing this real life story with you is to encourage someone out there that it’s okay to be ridiculed so far you are doing the right thing. If you did it bad, you will still be ridiculed and called names more so if you say you are a Christian. Our lives as Christians is the only book most of our colleagues get to read. They are watching us, taking notes of our every actions. When we leave there to a better place or go to be on our own, can they remember you for what you stood for? Or they’ll be joyful you are no longer there?

Oh yes, “Temptations abound when great opportunities present themselves.” When you are told, spend your money on such and such and fill an invoice for the reimbursement. Do you spend a certain amount and when requesting for the reimbursement, double or triple it? Hmm!!! I remember being told severally to just round up the amount I need. But thank you my darling. I’ll rather stay put than go that route. What of you who is given money to buy basic needs and instead of 10, you get 8 and keep the amount for 2? Hmm, God is watching you in three dimension!!!

You say, one needs to be smart. Hey, is that being smart or reaping where you have not sown or worse still sowing a seed of stealing?

Oh yes, I understand how bad the economy is these days and you aren’t paid what you are worth or qualify to receive. But let me ask you, has it gotten better since you have been hoodwinking?

Ever wondered why things are just not fine with you? Or a part of you is doing okay and another not?

As Christians, God’s utmost desire is to take care of us just like the birds and the grass. But when you begin to help yourself out your own way, only that area flourishes. All other areas suffer. Little seeds you sow go a long way. “Sowing are not limited to good seeds. You can sow bad seeds and suffer the harvest or your children do the suffering.” Let me share with you my dear reader, one of my principles I live by: Wherever God places me (job) and that place provides to care for me and pay my bills, it is my home.” So imagine you stealing from yourself. Does that make you richer? Off course not. If everyone begin to ride along life with this motto, imagine how well we will all be.

As a Christian employee, dare to be different. Let colleagues be uncomfortable to cheat in your presence. Let them know your stance that you wouldn’t change your dance steps the moment the song changes.

Finally, do not give worry a place to thrive. It is like a hunger bang waiting to be feed. Many a times in a bid to satisfy this worry, Christians tend to dilute their once undiluted convictions. Some even go on to break their once rock solid faith in God to provide all their needs.

“Therefore, I say to you, don’t worry about your life, what you’ll eat or what you’ll drink, or about your body, what you’ll wear. Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds in the sky. They don’t sow seed or harvest grain or gather crops into barns. Yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Aren’t you worth much more than they are? Who among you by worrying can add a single moment to your life?  And why do you worry about clothes? Notice how the lilies in the field grow. They don’t wear themselves out with work, and they don’t spin cloth. But I say to you that even Solomon in all of his splendor wasn’t dressed like one of these. If God dresses grass in the field so beautifully, even though it’s alive today and tomorrow it’s thrown into the furnace, won’t God do much more for you, you people of weak faith? ~ Matthew 6:25-30 (CEB)

“If God were your boss, how would you behave? “

“Be the Christ-like employee making a godly difference”

 “Don’t fool yourselves. Whoever thinks they are wise in this world should become a fool. That’s the only way they can be wise. I say this because the wisdom of this world is foolishness to God. As the Scriptures say, “He catches those who think they are wise in their own clever traps.” The Scriptures also say, “The Lord knows the thoughts of the wise. He knows that their thoughts are worth nothing.” ~ 1 Corinthians 3:18-20 (ERV)

God bless you.

5 Practical things to do when angry

In the world we live in, it’s unavoidable to have times when we would be offended or “angry.” But how we respond to such emotion matters a lot. So many people have lost opportunities, relationships, families, friends, associates and even businesses simply because they couldn’t control their anger. So many have acted in a way that ignited fires which burnt the bridges they once crossed thereby depriving others of a way.

“A quick tempered person does stupid things…” ~ Proverbs 14:17a

I remember when I was very angry some years back. I was so angry that I was shaking and when the opportunity came to meet the person, I responded in a way that I regretted. One would say my response was justifiable but I later knew, I could have done better. Yes, I did apologize even though I was not the one at fault but for my outburst. Over the years, I have also learnt so many valuable lessons as I found myself angry. Funny enough, I still get angry but how I respond is what has changed. I fell in love with “PATIENCE.”

“A patient person is very smart. A quick-tempered person makes stupid mistakes.” ~ Proverbs 14:29

Before we go on, if you have never been angry or no one has ever offended you. This post is not for you. 

  1. Take several deep breaths and think of something else. Blank out completely if possible. 
  2. Think of all the good things the person has done and if none, begin to remember every bible verse you know and start to read them out from memory. If you can’t remember anyone, begin to count the alphabet from Z – A.
  3. In addition, don’t say anything. If face to face, simply stay quiet. If virtual, just put the phone down and wait till the person drops the line or you politely tell the person you will return his/her call. Ensure you have gotten over it before you return the call. If it via email or message, type it out and read it. Come back and read it again and by the third time, if you have corrected it so many times, we are getting somewhere.
  4. Some people derive joy is seeing others angry, don’t let their joy cause you to act like a fool. It’s okay to cry if it helps and it is also okay to laugh. It’s even fine if you do both.
  5. Last and most importantly, pray about it. Those simple prayers of “Father help me as I am getting so angry now.” “Lord please help me not to make a wrong move.” And so on. Those are prayers that get ‘on-the-spot’ answers.

Scriptural thoughts: Proverbs 29:11, Ephesians 4:26-27, James 1:19-20.

Date with Mrs. O’ (Edition 1)- The Recap (Part 4)

As we came to the end of the date, we also took time to pray. If you missed the date recap, find part one, part two and part three here.

  • Father, you made me just like you. I may have physical features like my earthly father and mother but you are my maker first before they are my parents. Any way I have not walked in my true identity, I retrace my steps and begin to walk in it today. Pray in the name of Jesus.

  • Father, I call forth the one whom I am to assist. I refuse to assist another woman’s man. I refuse to do the work of another. Where it is lord that I am currently assisting another, I resign from such appointment and Lord if I am too stubborn, I give you permission to relocate me to meet my man.

  • Father where it is that I have relaxed into my lazy tendencies, waiting for a hardworking man. Now I know that you only give your children good things. I ask for your mercy Lord and I make up my mind today to become a doer. Lord as I begin, bless every of my work and pay me with all the good I deserve and desire.

  • My father, in me lies the power to create, today I wield my power to create and begin to create (mention them one by one) all to the glory of your name.

  • Father, all that I need to do and know and become before you send my man my way, help me to do, know and become. I will be equipped for the bright future you have ahead of me.

  • Please take this last point seriously and I want you to pray it like God is sitting opposite you and listening attentively. My father, you know everything about me. Those I know and those I don’t. Dear Lord if I am going to be abused in any way, I give you express permission to dissociate me from such abusers.

Thanks for catching up. Now you see we did have a nice time.

The virtual date is going to take place once every quarter. Watch out for information as to when the next one would hold. Until then, remain in the Love of God.

God bless you.

Date with Mrs. O’ (Edition 1)- The Recap (Part 3)

This is the recap of the virtual date that Mrs. O’ had with some beautiful ladies. Find part one and part two.

Now that we know that we are designed to assist our men. How do you assist when you have nothing? Ah…. it’s not possible. God in whose image we were created was a hard worker, he worked from day one to day six before resting on day seven. So you can see that there was no where in Scripture where it says Women should not work but keep eating. Yes I said it.

If you are a lazy woman, you do not deserve a hardworking man because you cannot assist him. Have you ever observed that God doesn’t give his children what will cause them to sorrow or suffer? If you are not busy, get busy please.

Adam was paid for all his hard work and faithfulness with a “woman” to call wife. Proverbs 22:18 “Find a wife and you find a good thing; it shows that the LORD is good to you.” God repays hard-workers with only good things. So you see if you are a good thing paid to a faithful man. What would be your payment for faithfulness at your duties as women, single or about to be married? Good things only.

Guest question: Good evening ma, what do you term as “abuse”? Cos I want to believe that a child of God should not think of beating his wife at home.

Mrs. O’s reply: Abuse is to treat with cruelty or violence an animal or person, regularly or repeatedly. (As google defined it) Yes it should be so my dear. But now so many so called “child of God” (male and female) are beating one another. When I say beating one another, I mean beating with hands, words and actions. Funny enough women do it too especially with mouth. That’s when you call them nagging wives (this is topic for next series. But if you are getting married soon, watch out for the series for the Mrs.-to-be.) So my dear, many man beat their wives even those who are called children of God.

It was at this juncture that the date came to a close but not without some heaven knocking prayers which is in part four.

Date with Mrs. O’ (Edition 1)- The Recap (Part 2)

The Virtual Date with Mrs. O’ saw about 70 single women come together to discuss. Catch up on part one here.

On why you were created. Yes, God’s original design of women was to complete a man. Mind you, not a lonely man.

You see, God didn’t design to to satisfy one lonely man somewhere. Let’s take it back to the garden of Eden. God created everything that man would need to survive first. After doing this, he created Man and employed him. Adam’s job in the present day is “Horticulture”. He was an Horticulturist. He was busy and faithful at his job. Eden as we recall from the Bible was a beautiful garden.

The Bible says in Genesis “Then the LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to live alone. I will make a suitable companion to help him.””‭‭ (Genesis‬ ‭2:18‬ ‭GNB) So here is it ladies, man was alone. It means he slept alone, ate alone, washed the dishes alone, swept the house alone, did the laundry alone. ALONE is the word and not lonely. So please Ladies, you weren’t designed to fill in the loneliness that that man feels. Loneliness is a thing of the mind. Anything can always fill in. Alcohol, reading, eating and what have you. But someone who is alone is alone.

God designed you to help. (which in plain words mean to render assistance) Ah ha. There it is. You are the assistant. So Ladies about to be married, if you aren’t assisting, don’t feel bad. Go back to your maker. Tell HIM. Father I was designed to be the assistant. Rewrite my story and I reclaim my rightful position. Ladies in waiting, tell the Lord, Father He who I am meant to assist, bring my way. Let him find me.

When a man gets the wrong assistant, the job is not going to be easy to do. Just imagine if you are a fashion designer and your assistant is a mechanic. How do you cope? You will not be the wrong assistant in Jesus Name. AMEN!!!

So now bringing it home. The man you are to help is not a perfect person. He has plenty flaws. He likes to be the boss that he is and capitalize on it. Sometimes, that which you are to assist him on, he will leave it for you and cross his legs. 😂😂😂 He will sometimes leave his garden to be filled with weeds and you have to clear it for both of you. He will sometimes scatter what took you hours to arrange. Guess what, your human nature will wanna scream at the top of your voice but guess what? He is not an angel. So he will fall your hands plenty plenty time.

Ladies as much as I preach prayer. I don’t encourage ABUSE of any form. So please don’t say Mrs. O said he is not an angel, he will scatter what I arrange, he will leave the garden unkempt. Ah ah. If he abuses you in all of this. Speak up.

Guess what, if Adam who Eve caused the garden of Eden didn’t lay a finger on her, there is nothing you do that should cause a man to lay his hand on you.

Continue to part three

Date with Mrs. O’ (Edition 1)- The Recap (Part 1)

It was a great time of sharing as about 70 single ladies came together to have a date – virtually – with Mrs. O’. This program was powered by “The Christian wife’s diary” and it is aimed at preparing single and engaged ladies for the beautiful bliss of marital life.

Have a feel of the event right here:

A quick word of prayer.

Our dear God in heaven, we thank you for life. We thank you for provision, we thank you for all things countable and those uncountable. We invite you to this date today and we ask that you be the Captain of this ship we are aboard. Lead us to our individual rightful destination. We won’t arrive at another’s in Jesus Name. Take charge of everything and you alone will be glorified in Jesus Name we have prayed. Amen… 🙏.

Okay, first of all. How many of you are glad you are a woman? I’ve seen people who wish they weren’t. And if you are here and feel so, I hope after this date, you will look back and appreciate your womanhood.

Now two questions for you all.

  1. WHAT IS YOUR IDENTITY?
  2. WHY WERE YOU CREATED?

You are God’s image. You are not just a child of God. You are god too.

Psalm 82:6 “‘You are gods,’ I said; ‘all of you are children of the Most High.’” This is the Psalmist description of us. Now see Jesus’ words in John 10:34-35 “Jesus answered, “It is written in your own Law that God said, ‘You are gods.’ We know that what the scripture says is true for ever; and God called those people gods, the people to whom his message was given.”

So now you see that you go beyond just being daughter or child. You are like your father. And guess what, a child will always take the traits of his father.

God is Love, you should be love too. Share love, speak love, breath love, sleep love, eat love, excrete love.

God is a creator, you should be creating things. Creating lovely friendship, creating great meals, creating dresses, creating confidence in that person, creating everything create-able.

Time will fail me to list them all, but know that you are “god” and therefore don’t think less of yourself.

Continue to part two